Life of a Woman

This article is written based on my observation

A woman, who thinks that she has found her true love
a highly educated man to depend on, to love and protect her
for the rest of her life
and willingly step on the path to her marriage life
Turn out to be a nightmare

Slowly, the true colour of the man is exposed
Time will reveal the truth...
Living in great fear and disappointment
That the man would suddenly explode on a small matter on her
That the man imposed his rule and dictated her
That the man then controlled her life
She has lost her total freedom, even in religion
To be chained forever, in this so called the security of marriage...
All her beauty, her potential...barried alive...

She then lives for the sake of surviving
Living for the sake of her children
The only light and strength for her in her life

All the tension, disappointment has been carved into her body
As hard as the diamond
Her heart, so shattered, one can hardly put the pieces back together

Now, that her children has grown up, the man has toned down,
With the golden time left in her life, and the expanding space that she has
she is now able to live an enjoyable life
Doing what she likes
Expecting gratitude from all her children and the man
But deep in her heart, her wound never heal

This woman
Has sacrificed a lot
and yet remain strong
but mentally shattered ...to almost mental breakdown
What a life...meaningful?...If she has the opportunity to choose again, what will she choose?

Therefore, all man out there
please if you want to get married
Do love your wife
She does not belong to you
She is not your maid
She is not your baby production factory
She is not on call, 24 hours, any time any where

She is a human being
with a heart
A person married to be love and to love

If you cannot create happiness, KEEP QUIET
Don't create more suffering
Make a positive difference in people who are close and dear to you....

Are You Ready to be Awakened?

When you are present in this moment,
you break the continuity of your story, of past and future.
Then true intelligence arises, and also love.
The only way love can come into your life is not through form,
but through that inner spaciousness that is Presence.
Love has no form.

- Excerpt from Eckhart Tolle's Stillness Amidst the World
http://www.eckharttolle.com/eckharttolle

What You Emphasize

I got this daily reflection & find it very useful!!

The trick is in what one emphasizes.
We either make ourselves miserable,
or we make ourselves strong.
The amount of work is the same.

-- Carlos Castaneda